Tuesday, May 19, 2009

Comments - Deidre and Angie

Deidre, thanks for your comment. I don't mind at all, but I don't think that's how she got it? I would actually like her to read my blog because that way perhaps someone can get through to her.

Angie, thanks for your comment. I haven't gone password protected yet, because frankly I have nothing to hide, but I have been meaning to and then changed my mind. I just don't want my mom to read the blog and then bring it up in conversation, like she sometimes does. I believe if I needed to discuss any of the blog posts with her and the rest of the family, I would freely do it without having to first write it here. But, thanks for your comment, I really appreciate your gesture.

With regards to Roadkill, well, it's not that I hate her, or don't like her or have any kind of agenda towards her. It's just that she takes a thing like infertility and milks it. To me it seems like she loves being infertile because it defines who she is and it ensures her a lot of attention. It's like a veil she can hide behind, without having to face the dirty facts and get on with it. I believe life is full of obstacles but if you get stuck, then you should at least make an effort to build a bridge and get over it (and yourself). I have truly felt the need to pray for her because she is so lost, but it's something I need to feel right about first. In the meantime, if I need a laugh, I visit her blog.

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  1. "It's just that she takes a thing like infertility and milks it. To me it seems like she loves being infertile because it defines who she is and it ensures her a lot of attention".

    I really couldn't have said it any better. This is exactly what I think, and it's sad that some people just refuse to get over it!

    Nix

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  2. Well said, dear friend.

    Self-pity is a very dangerous thing and it sucks you in before you know it, especially if you surround yourself with equally self-pitying people.

    xxx

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  3. Oh, I guess that password thing is a twitter password. Like I said, I am an idiot! I also don't think you have anything to hide. I have to say that I really really want to figure out who roadkill is myself. :)

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