Okay lots to tell:
After Deidre's comment I sent Dr V a long e-mail. And guess what, he phoned me back five minutes later! We had a good long chat and I must say he impressed me heck of a lot.
We decided that I should have CD2 blood tests done and then come for a consultation and HSG.
He faxed the blood tests that are required through to me and I phoned the lab to inquire about the costs involved. R5670.47!!! My medical aid will pay for R3300 but the rest would have to come out of my savings account and I have a whopping R438 left in my savings account. And that ladies and gentleman are just the blood tests. Then I still have to pay for the consultation, HSG, and meds. Firstly let me say that I almost fell off my chair when Dr V called me. I couldn't believe that a FS would be calling me! Usually I phone the Doctors Office and get told that his receptionist will speak to him and call me back, so having a Dr call me was quite a surprise, and I am not even his patient (yet).
We spoke about waiting for AF, going for the bloods on day 2 and then making an appointment before CD13. All set. I was in tears when I put the phone down. Then it dawned on me, what about the costs? We haven't planned this. I was doing natural cycles till about a week ago, and now I am booked to see a FS. An expensive FS, but also one of the best FS. He said that Climen is not the answer to my problems and that I shouldn't even consider taking it. So I can't afford Dr V right now, I cannot go on the Climen, I have an appointment to see Dr F in July. What should I do???? I have been crying over this the whole afternoon, because for a brief second Dr V and I had a plan and we were sorting all this shit out, and then 5 minutes later my world came crashing down. I could do this in six months time. But not now. I need to save money first. But what should I do in the meantime. Do I fly solo and ignore Dr F and just hope and pray for regular cycles?
What would you do?
Edited to add:
He also said Clomid will not work for me but he suggested injectibles (cannot remember the name) and then a timed trigger and timed intercourse. Guess Clomid is officially off the list then.
Have I mentioned before how much infertility SUCKS????
Wow Mandy, what a rollercoaster you have been on today! That's great that he contacted you. You live in Bloem hey? So would you have the blood done there and come up to Joburg?
ReplyDeleteI know it is expensive, but I think a second opinion is a good thing.
I dont understand why the bloods are so expensive! How much testing does he want to do? Cant you just send your file to him and ask him if you can oly test the absolute neccessary? What does he want to test?
Aah man Sorry! I feel like crap now telling you to email him :( This was not the answer you were looking for... Did he mention menopur? That is one type of injectables I used.
ReplyDeleteMands sorry man, wish I had gazillions of rands then I would sponsor you gladly. I know VL is heck of a expensive but what I can tell you is that they won't waste money on things that aren't necessary. Every cent spent to have my daughter and I am sure you feel the same. Just sorry that the timing sucks and that you have to save up.. Sorry my friend, I was hoping to be of help to you not drown you in sorrow.. So very sorry..
Oh he will probably put you on Menopur injections
ReplyDeleteHi mands!
ReplyDeleteAlso wish I win the lotto and then I will mail you some orange notes! :-) Infertility does SUCK! We are still paying for our IVF's of nearly 2 years ago and Jyaden will be 1.5 years old by the time its paid! That sucks!
I hope you an sit and chat with DH and figure something out and make a wise decision. It is sooo difficult!
Will be hopig an praying that you come right. Oh yes, I was on Menapur as well and worked great to make nice fat follies!
I am so extremely sorry Mands. I wish there was something I could do to make you feel just a little better.
ReplyDeletePlease just know that you are in my thoughts and prayers constantly. You are an inspiration to me daily and when your heart hurts, so does mine.
Hugs my friend. I'm always here if you need me.
Shamy my friend! I'm so sorry!
ReplyDeleteI wish I could help!
Stay strong my friend!