Blogging gone bad

I have thought about this post a lot in the last couple of weeks. It seems that some of my readers have some objections to the kind of things I post here. First of all, I would like to say this: If it offends you, don't read it!!!! I have spoken to a few people about this when they have confronted me about my blogposts and then they just reason it away by saying "well, if you put it on the INTERNET it's not private and then you should be careful what you say"

Ladies and gentlemen I have news for you. This is BLOGLAND. If you are not a fellow infertile, or a fellow blogger, don't know blogging etiquette or are just lurking wishing to spy on me then get off my blog. If you don't ever comment or have something good to say then please disappear. This is not a tool for you to read all about my sadness, heartache, fears and private matters regarding my fertility. If you have been referred here by a family member and not by me myself you are not welcome. To the person who gave you this address I can only say you have deeply disappointed me. I trusted you with very sensitive and raw thoughts and feelings and you have made an advertising campaign out of it.

Please feel free to look at my blogging friends' blogs and please realise that we have a friendly, committed little group with integrity, and we use our blogs as a place where we can communicate with each other, write stuff we don't have the guts to say, and use it as a medium to grieve, heal, laugh, bitch, moan, curse and cry "OUT OF THE PUBLIC EYE OF REAL LIFE".

Just because this is an Internet site doesn't mean that you can freely comment or judge anything I say in my own personal blog. If I didn't give you this address you would've have known about any of this. I gave it to YOU, not so that you could give it to anyone else. I can very easily make this blog password protected or export it to another address, so please if you wish to read my posts, and then question my thoughts and feelings in real life, DON'T.

I gave this address to AN ELECT FEW (People I love and people I know love me back), and asked them to keep it to themselves, but some people don't understand integrity. Some people think it's a nice conversational tool and give out the address left, right and centre. It is very sad. You have hurt me in ways you will never understand and you have taken something very special to me and corrupted it. You have made my grief and tears public to about everyone I know! This was my little place of sadness and grieving and I trusted you! I should have known this would happen.